Compassionate Inquiry

Tom’s presence is the safest I have known within a therapeutic environment. He is sincere, honest, encouraging and kind, yet not afraid to challenge me when I am limiting myself. 

His support and presence has allowed me to deepen my own self love and compassion, connect with peace, and become brave enough to invite more joy into my life. I wish everyone on the planet could have a ‘Tom’ to support their healing journey. 

Working with Tomasz has been nothing short of life-changing. For years, I carried the weight of childhood trauma without fully realizing how deeply it was affecting every part of my life. Tomasz created a space where I felt truly safe, seen, and understood. Through his compassionate guidance, he helped me uncover and release deeply buried emotions and long-held wounds that I never thought I could face.

What truly sets Tomasz apart is his incredible ability to gently guide you to the root of your pain and help you integrate those fractured parts of yourself with care and respect. Because of his work, I’ve not only begun to heal my inner child, but I’ve also experienced profound shifts in how I relate to myself and to those I love. I feel more whole, more connected, and more alive than I have in decades.

If you are ready to do deep, transformative healing, I cannot recommend Tomasz highly enough. He is a gifted therapist and a true healer.

Working with Tom has been a truly healing experience. His presence, deep attunement, non-judgment, and genuine curiosity have guided me toward expanding my awareness of defenses and coping strategies I once believed I had already processed. Through his support, I have discovered new ways to nurture myself beyond our sessions. This journey has allowed me to cultivate a more compassionate relationship with myself and those around me, ultimately leading me to a place where I can confidently say I am engaging with life in a much healthier, more fulfilling way.

A year ago, when I started doing personal sessions with Tom I didn’t expect what I was gonna confront. Despite the fact that I had already been doing intense inner exploration for myself for 3 years, with Tom I just went deeper. He was a friend, a father, a mother, a guard or a brother every time we explored my childhood. Every session with him I felt safe to go there and this is weird as I am a person or I was a person who is afraid of men and doesn’t trust them. With Tom every session is a safe space for me to go anywhere I want at that moment. Without rush, with a lot of respect and compassion, my inner self feels safe to communicate and show us my traumas from the past. His compassion and his ability to understand me completely has given me the power to explore myself more. However, the biggest asset I earned from our sessions was something else. Tom taught me to do this exploration and this communication with myself even when we don’t have a session, even when I am alone with myself! Every Time I need Tom, his voice or his presence is there now compassionately beside me helping me explore myself and giving compassion to myself, whether we have a session or not!

Please keep doing this amazing job you do, this compassion approach and understanding you give to all of us. We need you and I mostly I would say that I need you, at least for a little longer.

Thanks for every session we have done till now and I celebrate the upcoming one.

As a somatic and developmental trauma practitioner, continuing my own inner work is essential. To show up fully and with integrity for my clients, I must first be able to meet myself in the same way. Tomasz is the practitioner I trust to guide and support me through that ongoing journey.

His presence is steady, intuitive, and deeply attuned. Every session with Tomasz is unique, and he always meets me exactly where I am — which allows me to feel truly seen, safe, and supported. That safety has made it possible for me to explore and move through layers I couldn’t have accessed alone.

Each session is deeply impactful in its own way. The changes I experience through our work together are tangible and lasting, and I always come away with more clarity, ease, and connection to myself.

Tomasz is a true healer — grounded, gifted, and clearly meant to do this work. I’m incredibly grateful to walk this path with him and will continue to turn to him as a trusted guide in my own healing.

Dear Tom,

I can not thank you enough for the love you have shown me. I start each session feeling apprehensive about what might come up, and each time I am blown away by the discoveries I unearth and the incredible parts of myself that I meet. You hold a safe, kind and non-judgemental container for me to bring all of myself, which is an amazing thing since we have only ever met on a screen. Compassionate inquiry could not be more aptly named and parts work (IFS) feels to me like a deep cathartic cry whilst being held in a safe, warm embrace. Since we have started working together I notice that I am able to speak my truth more authentically, I know what I need with clarity, and I uphold gentle yet firm boundaries with those around me. I rarely get triggered anymore and I am able to respond compassionately and from my highest self. (Unless I’m driving – maybe there’s something to look at there!) The compassion and love that you bring to each session is transformational, and it has allowed me to sink deeper into love, reminding me of the path home to the wisdom of my own heart.

With love and deep gratitude,